Wednesday, February 12, 2014
Mumblings ... when men talk
I'm going to give you guys a huge heads up on feeling better about being a "guy" in today's world. You have to talk to other Men. You have to have those conversations that matter. You have to discuss topics that range from your world view, to business, to your victories, to your defeats, to obviously woman.
I have been lucky enough to be included in some interesting conversations. Now they are happening over the "phone" (which isn't exactly accurate, because it's via the computer, but it is voice) and we get the chance to really discuss topics, ask questions, explain our positions and points, debate, tell our stories - it's like sitting at the virtual bar and hanging with some interesting people that are quickly becoming friends.
What I want to emphasize ... this is important. Men need to gather. Men need to talk. Men need to have discussions on manly topics. I have no idea if there is a primal thing going on or not, but I feel so much more "manly" after these discussions. Topic doesn't matter - it's the fact that it is just men, only men - and we don't have to make excuses for being men. Now, this particular group are Men that have taken the Red Pill, so there is no need to go through the basics. We can talk about "higher" level issues, because we have an understanding of the underlying principles.
I have asked questions. I have given advice. We have explored business ideas, technology, women, dating, motorcycles, being younger (representatives from 20's, 30's, 40's and 50's) and being older. We have discussed divorce, we have discussed marriage - there isn't a subject that is going to be off limits. And because we are Men, there is a healthy amount of joking among the group also.
So, find yourself a group of men. Online or real world. It is as important to your life, your development and your health as working out, having a mission, confidence, etc.
Eyes front Gentlemen. Live, Learn, Lead.