Wednesday, January 22, 2014

It's all about attitude ...

I read a lot of same stuff that you read.  I've heard the same messages over and over again, stated in different voices, with different themes, with different goals in mind.  I've heard the arguments about "this is Alpha" or "this is Beta".  I know that Men are different from woman.  I personally know that marriage is not easy and that divorce sucks.  All those things I've read, ingested, commented on, debated, picked up or thrown out.  And at the end of the day, it all comes down to ATTITUDE.

So what do I mean by that?  Simple ... you either are a life sucking negative waste of space, or you are a life giving inspiration to others.  You either feel good about your life and what's going on or you don't.  You either believe that you have worth or you believe you are worthless.  You are either living the life you want or you're living a life that drains your energy and you just feel tired all time.  All that starts with Attitude - that general feeling inside you that radiates out.

If you think your life sucks, well it probably does - but not for the reasons you believe it does.  If you think your life is great and wonderful - the same is true of you.  Everyone has a reason to celebrate life - even if the only thing is waking up this morning.  Sure there are people with real problems - there are people that wake up every morning with debilitating pain, or physical/mental problems - and although I have recognition of those people, it's not the majority.  Most of us are living an irrational life - thinking our lives are worse or better than they really are.

And it all boils down to Attitude.

So, if you're reading something about some guy did X or said Y and he's a Beta (or Alpha).  What you are really witnessing, is an outward projection of his attitude - actions are the direction result of attitude.  Why does the Manosphere/Red Pill/PUA blogs/writers talk so much about Confidence or Outcome Independence?  Because it's an attitude.  You want to be a badass, then you better have a badass attitude.  You want to be Lady's Man, then you better have the attitude.  You want to be a millionaire, you better have the attitude.  If you don't know what that attitude is, you better study up on it - then emulate it, do that long enough and it just becomes who you are.

BTW, Actions is going to a future post.

Eyes front Gentlemen.  Live, Learn, Lead.


1 comment:

  1. Mind over matter because thoughts turn into actions.

    Wald

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